Talk about law, it reminds people of lawyer, judges, courts and prisons, of course not to forget another common element, wealthy.
Law is basically everything. Law are the rules. In a narrow and more precise context, rules that try to regulate the behaviour of public and to give certainty as well as famous, striking a balance between parties in any relationship, which including the relationship between private individuals or the state with the individuals.
Love deals with everything too, and it is a rule that apply on the universe, perhaps more universal than the laws made by people. There is no national or international love, unlike law. There is without civil or public love. There is only love.
I try to think, how should I define love.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
This is God's definition of love.
Google seem to know that more than me. But Google never understand love, it just know it.
Those definition is beautiful.
My understanding from the verse is, love should bring no harm to either party, because it is gentle and voluntary. Love is to endure and accept with patient.
I have to clarify my motive which I'm not saying the love between the opposite sex. The realm of my idea is much wider to cover every form of love.
I have questions. If love is been given only from one side, could it be without harm? If it is, then maybe the one giving love doesn't understand the root to love.
Last night I chatted with a friend. I said to her, it doesn't matter how you feel now cause I do not understand it since I have never been you, in addition I have not be put on your situation ever in my life. But I'do like to believe everyone could has all sort of feelings and due to our hearts are just sensitive toward our surrounding. It is what and how you feel now does matter and I think regardless what sort of feeling you have now, it only matters because you feel so. I respect your feelings and I'm willing to hear if you want to talk. Even I can't understand it, I see it as nothing bad or negative. After all, it is you and your feelings.
It is much more shorter when I put it in mandarin.
I think that's what I want from my friends and what I will try to do to my friends.
Not everyone could understand that. Moreover, not everybody cares.
I think, to feel hurt when others are not capable of understand how you feel is a self insulting activity.
This is how they feel about you too. They think it's weird to feel sad on the subject matters. And they think it won't hurt that much to talk about it.
No doubt I find myself are weird too. It's me so I'm just gonna be myself.
I'm not angry or anything, not now.
I think, to learn the way to love is a training for growing wiser.
P/s: Nothing stand forever, good and bad both take turns.
|And I wanted tell myself, the past, present and future myself. I love you, because you have the strength to give love that showing you deserve love.|